We all have suffered from self-esteem issues from time to time, myself included. I can assure you that you are NOT alone. As a child I too suffered from agonizing self-esteem and confidence issues. Growing up without a father I’m sure attributed to some of these feelings. However, as I got older I realized that to truly be happy, you must BE CONFIDENT. I don’t care what you need to do to get yourself in that mind-set, just act quickly and make it a priority. Time is ticking and your life is waiting. In the next few paragraphs I will go over a few tips I have learned over the years to break myself out of any negative thought patterns.
1- Look GREAT, Feel GREAT.
Yes, I know this may seem superficial, but it is SO important. Being in the hair and style business I have found that once a man (or woman) looks in the mirror and likes what they see, there entire mood changes. So YES, hair and style for a man certainly will make a difference. I am fortunate enough to be in the hair and fashion business so I can lend a helping hand to all my clients. I love when we are complete with the make over and they look in the mirror and smile. It makes my day.
Next I will elaborate on my look great, feel great concept.
2- Wear Modern Proper Fitting Clothes
The way clothes fit a man is EVERYTHING and I cannot stress how important this is. Baggy is BAD. Tight is even worse. So please wear clothes that fit properly and you will surely feel better about yourself.
3- Use Product In Your Hair
A little hair product goes a long way guys. USE IT! Or would you rather have your hair flopping around in the wind. I think not. When your hair is in place and neat, people will love to look at you and you will love to look at them. Your hair and the style you have should be neat and orderly. No mullets please!
So these a few tips that have worked for me in the past to keep my confidence up and my mind state positive. Hair and Style is more important than you think gentleman. DO NOT overlook it. All it takes is a little time and effort to polish your look.